Pity, if one can generalize, is at the bottom of woman. When men like us, it is for our better qualities, and however tender their liking, we dare not be unworthy of it, or they will quietly let us go. But unworthiness stimulates woman. It brings out her deeper nature, for good or for evil. E.m. Forster
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The concept of pity is at the bottom of woman is a common phrase, and it’s usually directed at women. It refers to the idea that women are more compassionate than men. One can think of pity as a strong emotion, which makes it a potent tool for manipulation. The idea is that women will be more inclined to feel sorry for you and therefore look after you. Of course, this is an exaggeration of reality, but there is some truth to the idea that women do tend to be more sympathetic than men.

Source: Howards End

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